Are you a mum or dad getting divorced?
Do you feel frustrated by the process? The stress, the expense and the uncertainty?
Are you warring with your spouse and racking up legal bills?
Are you overwhelmed by the changes: a new home, the risk of not seeing your children enough and concerns about financial upheaval?
Are you suspicious of the tactics your ex is using and keen to stay a step ahead?
Are you finding the stress and heartache hard to cope with and worried that this is affecting your day-to-day life and relationships? Are you developing unhealthy coping strategies that you fear could spiral out of control?
Would you prefer to feel in control of the process that lies ahead, and do all you can to get a good outcome for your children?
Would you like to have a someone to help you through this process?
Would you like to have ready access to professional support that makes this a smoother process for you?
Someone with first-hand experience of the process and the skills to help you get through this change in your life as easily as possible?
If so, I can help.
I am divorce consultant and coach who can support you through this transition – in fact, I aim for it to be a positive transformation.
I am a mum of three, a divorcée and professional coach with personal experience of a high-conflict divorce.
My career history includes positive psychology coaching and teaching as well as a stint in the corporate world.
I became a divorce coach and consultant to help parents like me get the support and information they need. Having been through the process personally and helped other parents too, I know the battlefield and can help you as you make decisions and take the next steps. I have a wealth of wisdom and insights to help you navigate change more easily than you can on your own. I understand the pressures you are under and I know that you want to keep your life and business on track despite divorce, but that you can’t do this alone.
If you’re getting divorced, don’t wait to get in touch: the earlier you receive support and advice, the better you will feel and the greater your chances of getting through divorce without inflicting damage on your children and your mental health.
I have a strong track record for helping parents to negotiate challenges without recourse to the court, although I also help parents if they do need to go to court.
I teach a method of communication skills called ‘Emotional Cooperation’ which I devised for divorcing parents, even those in high-conflict situations.
Even once the ink is dry on your decree absolute, you will need to find the right way to communicate with your coparent, and the skills you will learn can help you straight away.
GET IN TOUCH for a complimentary call to discuss your situation and find out if we are a good fit to work together.
It’s great to meet you.
If you’re getting divorced, I urge you to think ‘coach’ before ‘lawyer’.
Lucy has been a great support and makes difficult times more bearable. She is easy to talk to as she listens with empathy while I download, but knows just when to steer the conversation to what options I have, helping me come up with a practical plan and giving me confidence that I can do it.
Having worked with children as a teacher, and through having her own children, Lucy knows how different approaches to divorce can affect children differently, but also how hard it is to do it “well”.
She understands how emotionally challenging it can be when you want the best for your children and don’t trust your ex. Just having someone who understands what you are going through makes it easier to calm your emotions enough to come up with a practical plan.