Guidance from a Former Divorce Lawyer
Expert Divorce & Breakup Coaching
Moving you Forward
Helping you move forward with clarity, confidence, and expert insight—without the legal fees
Beyond the Break up
After qualifying as a divorce lawyer, I saw firsthand how overwhelming, emotional, and confusing breakups can be. I worked with countless clients navigating divorce, and I learned that legal advice is only part of the solution, what people truly need is guidance, clarity, and a roadmap for rebuilding their lives.
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Rebuild your Confidence
Unlike many divorce coaches who enter this field based solely on their own personal divorce experience, I bring a wealth of legal expertise to my work, having previously practiced as a divorce lawyer. I come with a professional, strategic perspective, having seen every kind of divorce and helping people through every stage of separation. My focus is not on venting or dwelling on the past, it is on helping you gain an understanding about your past in order to move forward with clarity, rebuild confidence, and take actionable steps toward your best future.
I am still a practicing lawyer, but I no longer handle divorce cases. My role as a coach is not to provide legal advice but to help you navigate the emotional and practical challenges of divorce and with my vast experience, offer you insights and expert guidance and focus.
I provide expert coaching to help you navigate this transition with focus and resilience.
What I offer and why I am different to other coaches
Expert coaching
Expert coaching from a former divorce lawyer with extensive experience, offering clear guidance and practical support to help you understand complex legal jargon and navigate the divorce process with confidence.
Strategic Approach
A structured, strategic approach to moving forward that is tailored specifically to you, taking into account your personal circumstances, long-term objectives, and immediate challenges, so you can progress with clarity, focus, and momentum.
Giving you the Tools
Tools that promote emotional clarity, strengthen decision-making, and support the rebuilding of confidence, empowering you to navigate change with assurance and stability
Giving you Full Support
Supporting you to navigating co-parenting, financial independence, and life post-breakup
Wealth of Legal Experience
I clearly explain exactly what to expect from a legal standpoint, helping you understand the process, anticipate potential outcomes, and avoid unnecessary surprises.
RECOGNISING THE COMPLEXITIES
Cut through the noise
A divorce coach whose only experience comes from their own divorce may offer a narrow, one-size-fits-all perspective, viewing your situation through the lens of their personal story. In contrast, with the depth of experience I bring, from previously working as a divorce lawyer, I know how to recognise the complexities, cut through the noise, and guide you with clarity and confidence, no matter what you are facing.
What I do not offer:
- Legal advice or representation
- Therapy or counselling (I focus on coaching for the future)
- A "one-size-fits-all" approach—every situation is unique
Unlike many breakup coaches, I bring years of experience in divorce law, giving you:
- A clear understanding of what to expect in the divorce process
- A structured way to think through your options before making major decisions
- A legal expert who knows how to help you avoid common mistakes
- More time to process, plan, and approach your divorce with confidence
Unlike a lawyer, whose primary role is to provide legal advice, I offer you the time and space to think, ask questions, and process your emotions. As a divorce coach, I provide a supportive, tailored approach, allowing you to express your emotions, reflect and focus, something legal professionals may not have the time or capacity to offer.
Many people rush into legal decisions without fully understanding the long-term impact. As someone who has worked in divorce law, I know that taking time to think strategically can make all the difference.
Know what to expect before you hire a Lawyer
Get clarity on the divorce process so you do not waste time or money on unnecessary legal battles.
Understand your options before making major choices
I help you think through financial, co-parenting, and lifestyle decisions before locking into agreements.
Stay emotionally clear and focused
Avoid reactive decisions driven by anger or fear by developing a strong, strategic mindset.
Work more effectively with your Lawyer
Instead of using billable hours to process emotions, you can go to your lawyer with a focused plan, saving time and money.
Speak freely
I provide a supportive space where you can express yourself openly. While your divorce lawyer is not your friend or therapist, I am here to help you understand your journey, how you got here, and the best path forward.
Pre-Divorce Clarity Coaching
I offer a coaching service that helps people prepare before jumping into the legal process.
Pre-Divorce Clarity Coaching • For those who are not sure what their next steps should be • Helps you understand your options before hiring a lawyer • Gives you space to process emotions and avoid impulsive choices • Equips you with the right mindset to approach your divorce strategically Pre-divorce coaching is about empowering you before any legal steps are taken. It provides a confidential space to think clearly, explore your options, and make informed decisions, emotionally, financially, and practically. Whether you are still unsure about divorce or preparing to take that step, coaching helps you sort through confusion, reduce fear, and gain perspective. With expert guidance, you can approach the process with confidence and clarity, rather than reacting out of anger, overwhelm, or uncertainty.
We offer flexible divorce coaching designed to support you at every stage of your journey. Choose a one-off consultation for focused guidance on a specific issue, or ongoing coaching sessions to provide clarity, structure, and emotional support throughout the divorce process.
Every situation is unique. Contact us to discuss your circumstances, and we will tailor a coaching approach that best fits your needs, goals, and pace.
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